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Star Island Unitarian Retreat Centre – Personal Retreat September
14-16 2007
| "...The spirit of the Shoals absorbs what we
consider highest, noblest, and even most heroic in the human
spirit. We have become a community of the spirit reaching
together toward our ideas and encouraging one another in the
process. Star Island, simply, asks of us a certain height.
Our island has been asking this of us ever since we first
came here. We have all responded by stretching a bit and
feeling a bit taller. We expect it of other Star Islanders.
They expect it of us. We feel we must not let one another
down."—Fred McGill |
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Time on magical Star Island is “time away from time” and
it was the perfect setting to truly begin the
contemplative part of my sabbatical. It is a place
steeped in UU history (indeed friends of mine from
Toronto First, Victor and Nancy Knight, after whom the
Knight Award, given to the most distinguished Canadian
Unitarian every year at the Canadian Unitarian Council
Annual Meeting – were, I believe, the first UU couple to
be married in the chapel there in the 1920s) with
traditions going back over a century, (the first summer
conferences were held there in 1897) connecting us to
our UU spiritual ancestors in place and time. I had
previously visited Star as a day visitor and attended
Religious Education week there to complete one of the
Renaissance modules as a theological student, but was
thrilled this time to be asked to lead worship in
historic Gosport Chapel. It was also wonderful to take
Peter there for the first time to have him experience a
place so special to me.
Deep Learning and Insights
Star Island’s worship tradition is revered among UUs as
the most meaningful parts of the Star Island experience.
For decades, worship begins after sunset from the moment
you leave the “ordinary world” (symbolized by each
person being given a hurricane lantern as they leave the
porch of the Oceanic Lodge) and observing complete
silence until you return, with the only words heard the
words spoken or sung in worship. The silent “torchlight
parade” winds slowly up the rocky hill until you reach
the chapel, where the lanterns are hung one at a time on
beautiful wooden cross sconces. The light from each
succeeding lantern glows brighter until from outside the
chapel is ablaze with light in the darkness and within
one is able to read the words of hymns from the hymnal.
Then the service begins with singing, prayer, readings,
inspiration and the offerings of music or spiritual
insight from the gathered ‘congregation.’
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The deep learning for me in leading the service on Star
was the metaphor of the “only words being the ones
spoken or sung in worship;” that the only words we
should speak should be the ones that express our highest
value. This is a powerful metaphor for religious
community and was a profound insight for me that relates
to how I preach, how I act, how I lead, how I live and
how I love. Like all such insights, it is hard to get
across in mere words how it has changed me.
The time I was there was a weekend in September after
the official “conference season” has ended and Star is
inhabited by individual retreatants as well as by
several different small conferences. There was a music
and dance weekend, yoga weekend, small choir workshop,
and a “Star Women” conference, to name just a few. What
is lovely is that it is a tradition among those groups
to invite participation and cross-pollination from the
members of the other groups – and all groups break bread
together. We all got to meet each other and experience
each other’s reason for coming to Star - whether
physical, spiritual, musical or simply to commune with
other good souls.
This was reminiscent to me of a model for interfaith
community that some clergy women colleagues and I used
to dream of in theological school – we called it “The
Temple.” Somewhat similar to the models for “community
churches” present in some small towns, but with an
interfaith rather than ecumenical vision; it represented
to us the best of humanity’s common ground coming
together in mutual service. It reminded me of the hope I
have in the past invested in interfaith collaboration as
a model for a peaceful world. I have always felt that UU
religious community was uniquely poised to lead the way
in this endeavour, and would be willing to invest
personally in it.
Finally, Star represents such a
link to our UU past – particularly our New
England Unitarian history. It was wonderful to
feel so at home in a place that has nurtured and
sustained everyone from Nathaniel Hawthorne to
last year’s “Pelicans” (young adults who are the
Island’s main employees – working as a “Pel” is
described as “the best summer job in New
England” by Yankee magazine - many UU youth end
up there!) Being there was a reminder of the
depth and breadth of the religious tradition in
which I serve – honouring those who have come
before and reminding me that I hold my part in
this faith tradition in trust for those who will
come after. It also served to remind me that I
am Unitarian Universalist to the core, but need
to be connected to the wider circle of our faith
to keep grounded in our tradition, and that my
vision of religious community extends beyond the
boundaries of those we already serve.
UU Values
The UU Principles I feel are most connected to
the insights gained on Star Island are Principle
7
• Respect for the interdependent web of all
existence of which we are a part. |
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And the first theological source (see above) the second
and the sixth (below)
• Words and deeds of prophetic women and men which
challenge us to confront powers and structures of evil
with justice, compassion and the transforming power of
love;
• Spiritual teachings of Earth-centered traditions which
celebrate the sacred circle of life and instruct us to
live in harmony with the rhythms of nature.
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